St. Ignatius Loyola suggests that in any exchange, “it is necessary to suppose that every good Christian is more ready to put a good interpretation on another’s statement than to condemn it as false.” To this call for charity, St. Ignatius added that if correction is necessary, it ought to be delivered with respect and kindness. Those qualities of respect and kindness have at times been hard to find in many of the heated arguments in which American Catholics have found themselves embroiled over the past 12 tumultuous months.
Can a Catholic in good conscience vote for Barack Obama? For John McCain? May pro-choice politicians be given Communion? Should the legal fight to overturn Roe v. Wade bear the full weight of Catholic political energy; or are there other, more effective strategies for combating the culture of death? Should the University of Notre Dame award an honorary degree to President Obama, or even invite him at all? Should there be more frequent celebrations of the liturgy in Latin; and if so, what version of the Mass texts should be used? Issues like these have always sparked much discussion in the Catholic community, but they are now often dominated by a tone that is decidedly dangerous—harsh and often lacking in respect or courtesy.
This rhetoric has threatened the credibility of the church, as the Catholic tradition of trust and toleration has been de-emphasized. Even a few bishops have made statements like “We are at war” and “Tolerance is not a Christian virtue,” suggesting that any notion of the common good has given way to a sharply defined “us versus them” mentality. Such rhetoric also subtly undermines the Catholic principle of subsidiarity first put forth by Pope Pius XI in Quadragesimo Anno, according to which a pluralistic social structure allows and encourages constructive input from a variety of groups on the grass-roots level.
This polarization must stop; otherwise our identity as a faith community will be torn asunder and Catholicism will cease to be an elevating force for change. How can we decrease the polarization? A vital first step is to seek out our common ground in the major civic areas where almost all Catholics agree: religious liberty; the sacredness of all human life; the goal of reducing and eventually eliminating abortion; support for social programs that provide a safety net for the poor; the elimination of segregation, racism and discrimination; and respect for differing religious and social traditions and diverse cultures. Few are the Catholics who do not share these principles, which provide a ready-made common ground.
We also need to find a way to foster civil debate and dialogue on how to incorporate and share our values in a pluralistic society. Recognizing the distinction between moral principles and their application, we can disagree in good conscience on the way such principles are prudentially applied in the public sphere. Even when disagreeing over the concrete applications of moral principles, we also must respect the good will of those with whom we disagree. Tolerance, charity and respect are not “weasel words,” nor are they excuses to paper over legitimate differences among Catholics. Rather, they are essential elements for a church in which members work together toward common goals, by supposing, as St. Ignatius wrote, that everyone is striving to act for the greater good.
Our bishops must take the lead in this conversation in the Catholic community. As the Second Vatican Council noted: “Bishops should make it their special care to approach men and initiate and promote dialogue with them. These discussions on religious matters should be marked by charity of expression as well as by humility and courtesy, so that truth may be combined with charity, and understanding with love.” As many have noted, our bishops also need to be careful that they do not overstep their bounds when they prescribe specific policy recommendations, lest they sacrifice their spiritual authority by appearing to be partisan political figures.
In his book Models of the Church, the late Cardinal Avery Dulles, S.J., highlighted the image of the church as a “community of disciples.” This image from the early church (Acts 6:1-2) sees every Christian united in learning from and following Christ. Here the church is always a learning church led by the Spirit, not yet in full possession of the truth. A disciple is by definition one who has not yet arrived, but is on the way to full conversion. This more humble view of a pilgrim church always in need of purification and improvement may help to tone down the rhetoric and encourage Catholics to work together in addressing the great issues of our day, especially those involving the culture of life. True dialogue, as Cardinal Dulles noted, enables the church “to understand its teaching better, to present it more persuasively and to implement it in a pastoral way.”





Comments
I do think the editorial makes a very good point. But it also falls into a common pitfall. We need to be charitable in our interactions with people. We need to believe that they act and speak from good intentions. But tolerance of people does not mean tolerance of ideas. And respectfully listening to dissenting ideas does not mean remaining silence if they are wrong. To address the common reference: It is true that Jesus dined with sinners, but he also told them to sin no more.
The problem is that tolerance truly is *not* a virture. Charity is a virtue. And while they often coincide, sometimes tolerance is an immensely uncharitable thing to do. And that is the difficult balance to acheive. We must act truly charitably and not take the comfortable out of tolerance. We have to dine with sinners (and recognize that we are the sinners with whom others are dining), but we must also tell them to sin no more. If a person espouses sin, or ideas contrary to Truth, we risk tolerating them right out of the Kingdom of Heaven.
I have found that many biships and cardinals are partisan politically, especially when a president is up for election. In any parish I have ever been a member of ,I doubt if I ever have heard one homily or sermon on abortion vs pro-choice during the whole year until election time, then our parish gets a letter from the bishop of our diocese or a short film shown at all the masses as to the evil of abortion. I have been a member of parishes in New York City, Long Island and now Florida. Several have been large parishes with different income and probably educational levels. The letters literally are telling you in no uncertain terms: vote republican.
Not to long age while reading the letters to the editor column in a monthly Catholic magazine one of the writers send they were horrified that the magazine dared show a parishoner receiving the host in her hand . They asked the magazine to end their subscription, How do you deal with Catholics who think like this. I had read an article in America some time ago where I believe a Father O'brien who taught in a Fordam. that he believed himself a middle of roader as a Catholic , but was having a rough time finding the middle of the road. I don.t believe he will have any trouble now.
Salvatore Ferrara
Saint Ignatius trained his men to defend the Faith and to use their intellect to defend the Church against erroneous teaching so I find it sadly ironic that this article instead of defending and supporting the Bishops for coming out strongly in defence of Church teaching in regard to abortion and same sex attraction it dismisses their courage as cowardly conservatism and accuse them of causing disunity.It seems to me that some religious forget that Christ did not alter His message to suit the world. He also warned us we must be salt and He had no time for the lukewarm.Being loved by the world is no measure of faith.Yes there is room for diplomacy and gentleness but we have different temperaments and gifts and it is wise to remember it is not our individual strength that spreads the faith but our allowing the grace of God to work through us. A very wise old priest once said to me the only difference between the saints and you and I is that the saints reduce their ego and pride so God's light is able to shine through them.
Today, my partner and I will celebrate Gay Pride in NYC and we will begin it by attending Mass at St Francis Xavier Church in Manhattan, the very church where we met over 26 years ago. At that point, Dignity, a group of gay Catholics, was allowed to meet there and in other Catholic churches around the country. Regreattably, that soon changed on instruction from Rome. How sad that Catholics were evicted from their own church! That said, over the years, we have found some parishes that meet Cardinal Dulles' vision of a pilgrim church where people try to see the good, find common ground and work to build the kingdom and we have also found parishes where we clearly did not fit in as an openly gay couple. Whether Rome or anyone one else may like it or not, we are a big church in a big tent and God has welcomed all of us on the day of our Baptism. The good news is that the Spirit is moving and that tend is getting ever-larger. Thank you, America, for a great piece!
What I take away from the comments that are critical of the editorial is a belief that, before the mid-1960s, the Church was an static, top-down institution where the hierarchy dispensed with unchanging doctrine that the faithful in the pews absorbed in an obedient and uncomplicated manner. This just isn't an accurate history of the Catholic Church. At best, it captures the nostalgia for Catholicism in the period just before Vatican II that many today use in the service of partisan politics. The liberal Catholics I know don't fit the descriptions I read here either: far from being "feel-good" relativists who could easily be worshipping in any church, they are deeply committed to their faith and struggling to address the large moral questions of the day.
The problem, as it appears to me, has to do with unavoidable cultural influences. In the manner of discourse, there appears clearly that today, people are driven more by sentiments and feelings rather then reason. This indicates a failure of education going back to primary school. I met a worrysome number of Catholics who equate the will of God with their feelings and emotions. Even more who equate nice, worm, fuzzy feelings, with love. Many cannot carry on arguments, let alone refutations, in the spirit of the great classics, without grudges or emotional upheavals. Add to this the rapidly moving landscape typical of the last thirty years, the lack of rootness and stability and voila...The separation of Church and State served the Church well. Perhaps, a partial solution to the problem might be the separation of schools too.
Maybe we need two Catholic Churches: The Roman Catholic Church whose members would believe in the faith handed down by it and follow this faith, trusting in the Shepherds to oversee and guide it. This church would be based on a hierarchy and its members would share and follow its beliefs. This church would not be a democracy. The second church could be called the American Catholic Church: This Church would be a democracy: it would elect its Bishops and vote on its doctrines and core beliefs. There would be dialogue. I suspect that the second church would eventually divide into a multitude of churches as their protestant brethren did over the centuries. The Catholic Colleges and Universities who practiced their Catholic identity and taught and followed the teachings of the Roman Catholic Church and obeyed their Bishop could retain their RC Church identities. These colleges would hire teachers that were members of the Roman Catholic Church. The Catholic Colleges who subscribed to the current beliefs and philosophies of secular society would be renamed American Catholic Church identities and could do it their own way. As it now stands everyone is unhappy and there will never be unity.Pages